The Power of Saying ‘No’: How to Set Healthy Boundaries Without Guilt
Nikki Lacherza-Drew Nikki Lacherza-Drew

The Power of Saying ‘No’: How to Set Healthy Boundaries Without Guilt

Saying “no” can be one of the hardest things to do, especially if you’re used to putting others before yourself. Whether it’s taking on extra work, attending an event you don’t have the energy for, or lending a hand when your own plate is full, the pressure to say “yes” can feel overwhelming.

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Fall Into Positive Change: How to Navigate Life Transitions and Set Boundaries During Stressful Times
Nikki Lacherza-Drew Nikki Lacherza-Drew

Fall Into Positive Change: How to Navigate Life Transitions and Set Boundaries During Stressful Times

As the leaves begin to change and the crispness of fall sets in, many of us are reminded of the constant shifts in life. Just as the trees shed their leaves and prepare for winter, we too go through seasons of transformation—whether through external changes like moving to a new city or internal shifts like reevaluating personal priorities. For many, this time of year also brings stress, anxiety, and feelings of burnout as we navigate these transitions. It can be a busy, overwhelming period that requires intentionality and self-care.

Fall presents a powerful opportunity to reflect on where we are in life, what’s no longer serving us, and how we can set healthier boundaries to protect our mental health. Life transitions, while often stressful, can also be a time of great personal growth and positive change.

Let’s explore how to approach life transitions with intention, how to set boundaries during these times of stress, and how to manage anxiety and burnout along the way. Whether you’re dealing with a career shift, a change in relationships, or just feeling the effects of seasonal transitions, this guide will provide you with tools to help navigate your journey.

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Healthy Boundaries in Relationships
Nikki Lacherza-Drew Nikki Lacherza-Drew

Healthy Boundaries in Relationships

With the onset of Valentine’s Day, it is a great month to talk about healthy relationships! In the intricate dance of human connections, the concept of boundaries plays a pivotal role in safeguarding our mental well-being. Whether in romantic partnerships, friendships, or family ties, establishing and maintaining healthy boundaries is an essential component of fostering positive relationships. So, let’s explore the significance of healthy boundaries in contributing to mental health, examining the ways they empower individuals, enhance communication, and promote overall well-being. 

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Love Thy Self
Nikki Lacherza-Drew Nikki Lacherza-Drew

Love Thy Self

February is finally upon us and it’s the time of year to celebrate love! Typically, we associate Valentine’s Day with recognizing the love we have within our romantic relationships. But, before we can love another, we must practice celebrating the love we have for ourselves. The concept of self-love is often easily overlooked and devalued by many.

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Boundaries- Where Do I Start?
Nikki Lacherza-Drew Nikki Lacherza-Drew

Boundaries- Where Do I Start?

Any of my patients will tell you that I am big on boundary setting and talk about it frequently. This book was an amazing addition to my collection and a reminder of how important boundaries are. I strongly encourage you to read this book if you are interested in learning more about boundary setting and how to appropriately utilize them. For now, here are 5 tips on how to help with boundaries.

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